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I am a bi- female in a realtionship with a woman, but still in love with my ex-boyfriend, what do I do???????

My ex boyfriend and I just ended a 5 yr relationship because I wanted to experience a relationship with a female I’ve been seeing for about a year. He knew about her, no there was no trois, he knew I like the best of both worlds from the begining now I’m stuck because I don’t know what to do. I love them both….

Is this situation normal? At the workplace?

Scenario: I am a married man with pictures of my child on the wall. She is a woman with a boyfriend. We work together at the same place. She buys me coffee and gives me the leftover food she won’t eat, like the breakfast she buys she doesn’t want, and a slice of pizza she doesn’t want to eat, and almost twice a week a starbucks coffee.
Sometimes I offer to pay for things and she says no one time I did pay and she put money in my pocket.
We walk around a bit on our breaks together.

She’s really super hot and I would, but you know, its the workplace and I’m married, so I can’t “close the deal”

So is that normal, for someone to keep showering all this food on a guy? When the guy has basically said in as many words – I will never do you cause I wouldn’t want to get fired.
To the first poster, please read above where i said I am married and there for can’t “close the deal”

ok, did you read that, ok good

you will probably not be chosen as best answer
Oh no not at all, I tell my wife whats going on. My wife is like, are you f*cking her, and im like, no, cause you know, im not i love my wife, so shes like, whatever,

My boyfriend’s cockatiel flew away yesterday. What are its chances of survival or return?

We were taking fireworks outside to put in his car, and his stepdad was bringing more out when she slipped out the door. It was very windy and she tried to turn around to land somewhere near the house, but the wind just blew her farther away and I could see she was a long ways away before I lost sight. (Her dot was gone before it headed for trees, and it’s a fairly flat landscape with shorter trees.) We looked for a long time after she was gone, but it was no use, she’d flown too far. I just want to know what are the chances. I know they have bad homing skills, I know they aren’t good at surviving in the wild. Especially not with all the booms from fireworks, and I think it was supposed to storm last night sometime, and there are a lot of hawks around here, and it’s very very hot out. ((Texas.)) So just give me a blunt answer; is there any chance she’ll come back, and if not, what are her chances of surviving? She was a nice bird, even if she didn’t like me(jealousy), and I don’t like to think of her being killed. ((My boyfriend and his mom both take the stance that birds aren’t meant to have their wings clipped or be kept cooped up in a cage all the time, and she’s only in a cage at night or when they take her to her big outdoor cage. I like birds a lot, and I’m all for that stance except for the heartache of losing the bird. If I ever get one, I’m clipping its wings.))

Why does my boyfriend feel the need to control me??

I have been living with my boyfriend for 5 yrs now…he makes more money then me…he makes 20 dollars an hour..and i make 9;50 an hour..right now i am only getting 34 hours a week because we are in the slow season…i give him 60 a week towards bills…i pay my own cell bill…my own car insurance and what ever else my car needs…plus i buy the food for the house
i also bring him food home from the resturant that i work at..anything from spag to prime rib…i even make him a sandwitch so he can take it to work with him…no matter what i do it seems not good enough…he likes to say that i am working againts him….is this a controlling situation?…or is he right to hurt me like this?

I think that I might be the ugliest, fattest person ever?

I know that I’m not, but I can’t stop eating. I feel like a big, undulating worm with brown hair. I know I’m really average, but I feel like a potato with lips. How can I stop eating food? I hate being a girl. My boyfriend can drink 37 million beers a night and eat anything he wants, and he’s a beanpole. It really pisses me off. I would be perfectly happy being an inch taller and one pant size smaller. that’s it, that’s all I need. I weighed 20 lbs less this time last year. I’m just getting older and fatter.