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Overall, do you believe Electronic Products have been more a blessing than a cancer to society?

Did you notice that since the invention of TV, Sound Systems (either home systems, Walkman, Discman, MP3, PDA, etc.), computer (internet included), video games, mobile phones, etc., people tend to live in their “own world”?. You see four friends seating at a restaurant’s table speaking on their phones, or different members of a family dispersed around the house (one watching TV, the other surfing the net, another listening to his/her MP3). What happened to family’s communication. Don’t get me wrong, I love all these things. I’m not a puritan, but if you think about what I am saying, there is something there.
Sometimes I dream that something happens out of a sci-fi movie and an electromagnetic pulse ends these madness, so we’d return to those wonderful times when we have long talks with our family like we used to (at least the ones that had the chance to live it). I remember when for some reason the lights went out and I used to chat with my grandmother for hours. I really miss that.

How would I go about raising money for a family in need?

I have a close friend whose family is going thru a really rough time with finances. They’re expecting their 7th child and are on the verge of having to declare bankruptcy, and this is to cover basic expenses like food and bills, not because they maxed out credit cards on frivolous expenses. They are one of the most frugal families I know but with seven children, money just gets tight and they are trying their best. How would I go about trying to raise money for them while preserving their dignity? If I share their name with people, it could bring shame to the dad of the family and that’s the last thing I want to do. But I want people to know it is legitimate and not some kind of scam or something. I just want to try and do something good for them. What could I do?

Pleeaasseeee help me come up with a better conclusion!! And edit if needed.?

Imagine, everyday waking to no food or water, the stench of dead bodies all around you, and not even knowing where your family was, or if they were even alive. Well this is how it was for 11 dreadful years. The holocaust. Adolf Hitler was in power 1934-1945 before and during World War II in Germany. Hitler’s main priority was to establish one superior race and eliminate the others. Although he had brown hair and brown eyes, he wanted the world to be occupied by only people with blonde hair and blue eyes. He made it clear that he was going to do whatever needed to be done for this to happen, and that’s how concentration camps evolved.

One of the three main camps was the labor camp. Men, women, and older children were forced to work hard labor of all sorts depending on their skills. They were given a variety of exhausting jobs. Some of the tasks involved something as simple as carrying bricks from one place to another, yet other were as tough as being a part in inhumane experiments. Working from dawn to dust, they were often worked literally to death.

Another brutal type of camp was the prisoner of war (POW) camp. The Germans had established many POW camps throughout the western allied countries. The causes of them being captured was for obvious reasons. First of all since the Germans were at war with them, it would be one less enemy to kill. The bigger reason was so they could get valuable information from them, such as where their camps were located and where ammunition was located. The POW’s were also treated very badly, only getting one small meal a day, given hard labor, and sometimes even tortured to death. Even tho there was no way to escape death anyway, considering they would have been sent to the extermination camps afterwards and put in the gas chambers.

Last, but definitely not least, were the extermination camps. Systematically killing millions, these camps were set up to kill mostly jews but also the mentally retarded, physically impaired, the elderly, and people belonging to other ethnic groups. These camps not only tricked innocent men, women, and children into believing they were taking a shower when they were really being led into a gas chamber and given false hope of humanity. They also performed various medical experiments on them which was very painful. Very rare and difficult, but possible, some people managed to escape, but most all would be killed on the spot if found trying to escape. For this reason, they thought they had a better chance of survival staying there and enduring the pain and suffering.

As you can see, the holocaust was a very difficult time for many. It also continues to be a difficult time for the family members who are still alive. Killing an estimated 6,000,000 just because they were different goes against the saying “all men are created equally.” (I just want to have one last REALLY good sentence but im having trouble thinking of one…)

How do I get my family back on track after my husband’s breakdown.?

After being out of work and depleting our savings to live, my husband had a nervous breakdown. He took off into the woods for 2 days (he’s a former military man and has winter survival skills) and came close to killing himself. For 2 days I didn’t know where he was (he did leave a note but I didn’t find it) or why he had left. We had a good relationship, didn’t fight other than normal spousal disagreements. I knew money was tight but found out that he’d been hiding the fact that we are totally broke and behind on everything. He had always insisted on handling the majority of the finances. I’d ask how we were doing and he’d keep telling me “ok”. It’s a LONG story, but he’s started counseling and is on anti-depressants. He seems ok, but I feel like I’ve had the rug pulled out from underneath me. I’m trying to figure out this financial mess, but I need to find out from him what’s going on. Yet I’m afraid it’ll trigger too much stress. Some things can wait, but our landlord wants his $ tomorrow. That stuff can’t wait. Our car was just repossessed so I’m struggling to even find ways to get to work. I’m beginning to feel like I’m on the verge of my own breakdown. We have a 15 yr old daughter, so I’m trying to remain strong and not let her know how bad it is. I just feel like I don’t even know where to begin and that I have no one to turn to.
Just wanted to add a few things:
His beakdown was a complete shock to me. I had no indication it was coming.
My husband is a war vet and fought in Iraq, but had no history of mental instability.He has met with someone from the VA. He is the hardest working man I’ve ever known. He just completed a very short-term temp job w/UPS so he’s doing what he can.
He is my 2nd husband and my daughter’s step-father. They have a better relationship than she does with her biological dad. She knows about his breakdown and that he was keeping our real financial situation hidden. She understands money’s tight.

family problem?! (mom and son)?

okay so me and my mom have MAJOR problems. we are constantly fighting with each other. ever since I was little my mom always threatened to take me to military school. This was when I was like 5-7ish years old. I know a lot of kids say this, but It is usually (75 percent) not my fault. She just gets mad at me for stupid things. like me and my friend wrote a song and she got mad at me because it was “so depressing and cruel” it was for our class about survival skills. my dad is afraid to tell her that hes on my side. but things get out of hand and I occansionally blurt out a cuss word (regretfully) and I have so much frustration and hatred towards what shes done to me that I just sit in my room and cry for hours. I think that I might even hate her. please help.