Tag Archives: husband

husband took my girl after his dad died (called it was payback) once location found called officers and was…

In 2003 husband took daughter just after his dad dies (calls it payback) I locate daughter (she called friend) terrifed and gave them address and hung up. I had no phone at home (husband was why) I go to neighbors and call chief of police there and when he comes back he tells me shes with family and I can do nothing. His words were odd: They came out and lined up while he asked questions. Lined up? I called local cops and they like him gave me the runaround. I get the same with lawyers too. I live in North Carolina. I have no job husband got me cars that drank gas and then barely gave me enough to make food trips and back. He was and is a control freak. Counsler said he’s abusively insane, cps says he’s a perfect dad (he pawns her off to be with other women).I can’t pay for a lawyer and I am not about to go through the bs of legal aid again.They are as nuts as he is.He witholds mail and gives wrong address when he has law serve me anything. Don’t ask about mail, insanity never stops.
What can I do? I am sent in circles. This officer says one thing. Lawyers contradict themselves and others. Ican’t get a straight answer.I would go to montel or some one like him except I don’t own this pc and the harder I try to do anything the crazier things become. Got any suggestions? One person said I needed God and to pray. I have known God since I was 9 years old. He is with me and He sees everything; which is why my husband is paranoid and feels eyes watching him. Ever seen Ghost? Those black shadowy things follow wicked people. They used to follow my Moms dad because he cheated on Grandma. Like my “X” he too constantly was looking over his shoulder, never could stay in one place long and drove like a feind to keep from being followed by things only he could see reaching for him. Is God with me? Yes, “X” promised to buy a car for me then refused if I found any cheap enough to suit him. When he finally got one for me.Asked why the change of heart,”X’s” answer? The VOICE told me.

what is a good way to stay healthy and fit on a budget?

My husband and I are looking for a way to get fit and healthy in a busy lifestyle. We are not always able to sit down to balanced meals and also we have gotten out of the habbit of exercising and are trying to slowly get back into the shapes that we used to be.. I need help know what we can do to achive our goals on a budjet. We can’t afford to go to the gym.. they are just way too much per month. Also I need to know what foods to buy and how to make quick and easy meals that are healthy. I need the whole package so I can have a flat and toned tummy again! FAST!!!! PLEASE HELP!!

How do I put my life (back) together?

So I’ve made some decisions during the course of my life that have, at the time, seemed like good survival choices, but in the long run have turned out to have negative effects on people I love–my husband, my children, my mother. I’ve never been a drug addict or anything that extreme. But I’ve made choices for my life that have led to things now that are affecting people I love negatively. I can’t undo the past–go back and suddenly be good at math so that I would be more confident about going to college, not let myself be bullied or manipulated into choosing not to go to school or be independent, and so forth. And now my family is suffering alot of financial problems that could be averted if I only had just gone to school years ago and just gotten a stupid degree in something that would support us all. I can’t always buy for my kids things they want or need. We have to do without alot of stuff other people take for granted. Small glitches in our life turn out to be huge, distatrous kinds of events (or at least people react that way to them), and we just can’t seem to get out of the hole. If only I’d just gotten a degree in something I could make it better and support my family through this hard time. Instead, all I have are house cleaning skills and the ability to bake good cookies. I can’t figure out how to get what we need to survive and to correct the mistakes I have made in life. I don’t know where to start or how to find my own special niche in life so that I can not just exist or survive, but thrive and help my husband kids to do the same. I don’t even know exactly what I’m asking here.

Can anyone recommend foods that are really good for the liver?

My husband has a sick liver due to alcoholism and is jaundice. He was sent home from the hospital recently and was told to eat healthy foods. What foods would be most healthy for him?

How often are you expected to visit or stay in touch with in laws ?

I have been w/ my second Husband 16 yr now. His family is Italian Catholic and they do everything together. A 40 year old Sister, 42 year old sister w/ 2 married. I use to put alott of effort into all relationships to realize I don’t want to. The Mother is not happy I did not have babies. Then I have issues w/ food. I am a Veggie. The Italians right off the boat eat almost anything gross. The times I visited have been full of anxiety for me. They believe if you are visiting you stay for the day or even worse yet through late night. I think 3 hours is all I can take w/ anyone. So I asked for a compromise from the hubby. He was all for it so I hardly see them at all. I even stopped calling and inviting them here ( they never went home ). If I did call she crys and pushes for a visit.So I insisted that my hubby maintain a visit them with out me every three weeks. They are hurt that I am never there. Should I bite my feelings and go back to the family. Or should I stay w/ my hiding