The relationship women and men have when it comes to natural selection is that of teamwork.
Men’s biology focuses more on the physical and mechanical motions. In this regard, they can detect what types of physical attributes are good for survival. Stronger bones, smarter, faster or big hips to successfully bare a child. Many more details but these are just some.
Women tend to focus on the emotions, character and conceptual part of humanity. If a man has a strong emotional constitution and a good character, she can knows that he is reliable yet capable of more than just mechanical motions.
Take for example a very big and tough man. This man is very shy and cowardly. He will not be able to use his strength very much. Take for example, also, a very skinny, small muscle and weak man but with a big and brave personality. Sure, he can accomplish a lot. However, he will take a lot longer to do it. He will also not be able to defend anyone very well and might not be very useful with anything physical. Although, he will try.
So how does it apply to sex?
Well lets take what we commonly attribute to sexual requirements.
Looks, money, big penis, social skills, social connections are some.
Looks: The way your face looks communicates an emotional/personal quality to women. Faces can communicate — romance, confidence, daring, profundity, love, determination and so forth.
When men look at it, they only see that the face is symmetrical but our ability to determine its emotional quality is superseded by our evolutionary ability to wire healthy and symmetrical human outlines as a quality of mating.
Money- Women want to feel safe. A man that has money communicates that he has the mental requirements or social connections/skills to obtain this wealth. In having money, a woman will have a certain feeling of safety. There are many factors that play into all of these. Such as if he is rich but has a mild and needy attitude communicates something negative, however, the money is real.
Big penis- Similar to good looks. The trend is, anyone with a big penis is more confident. Since generation 1 or 2, men have always seen the penis as a status symbol (reference from certain sources). Thus a man with a big penis is likely to be more confident. The reasoning behind this being a status symbol is because men are physical.
The vaginal opening isn’t much wider than one inch side to side. 4 inches in. The physical aspect of this isn’t what gets women off in sex. It is something I call sexual tone.
Sexual tone is the context of events leading up to sex. Lets take a big, muscular and confident man and a skinny, artistic/stylish man. Both attract women but both make two different sexual tones to women.
Another example: Take a short, not very good looking, fat and balding woman. Now pit her against an attractive actor. The balding woman might very well be attracted to this actor if they met.
If they have sex, the sexual tone for the woman would be that she is very low in gene quality and is getting a good gene and that she is lucky.
Sexual tone for a strong attractive man and an attractive women is she is upgrading genes.
Sexual tone for artist is strong emotional sex and desires.
Sexual tone for player is, danger and excitement
etc.
So this outlines the bulk of what I analyze the game of sex to be.
What do you think? I can provide sources.
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i have a theory about who enjoys sex more. The answer is, it’s both and neither.
The individual is the one who enjoys it more. It’s the same as a person who doesn’t enjoy wine and one who does. The way he/she mentally tunes into the enjoyment determines how many nerves the person uses in it’s experience.
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Other scientists haven’t postulated this. At least not putting it together like this. All of this is known but in different contexts. Such as the study of the animal kingdom and also the study of the human mating system.
What I haven’t come across was the connection between the two gender’s mental functions and mating behavior.
Also, what does literature have to do with science?
Also, I didn’t waste my time. Writing this down is sort of practice for when I write research papers next year.
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