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what do you have to do to get your kids taken from you in ohio?

Sell their food stamps, toys, medicine, or clothes for drugs nope. How about having your jaw broken for ripping off your drug dealer nope. How about leting your new boyfriend hit your little girl. Still NO. So I just have to wonder how much more my little nieces will go though till some one takes them away from their “parents” There is no talking to these people and I have called child services non stop. I would love to be able to take care of them but if they won’t let me they would still be better off in foster care then with this woman they call “mom” So please if anyone knows what else I can do please let me know.

what should i do??

im sick of seeing the same things at school over and over again the same frnds even though i try changing the things around me nothing changed and nothing is going to change i can’t ever live up to anyones expectations and they all want me to change but ther the ones that stay the same i feel tired of everything i don’t like playing the guitar anymore everything i do seems lik i can’t ammount to anything and i dissapoint my parents i get B-A minuses and they are dissappointed and my mother keeps nagging on me and im sick of it what shoudl i do……. should i just end it nothing seems to be like it used to be everyday i wake up the same way and it feels lik the only people i can talk to are my friends and the whole world is against me i need help on this very badly…….
i think i might suicide……
im nearly 16
wait its a nong?!!? damn this makes things so much better ty all 4 anwring i appreciate it

thinking about running away?

ok friday my substitute teacher for science thought she caught me cheating but she really didn’t all i was doing was helping my friend out by checking his answers with mine but my sub thought i was given him answers and so she took my paper and is probably gonna email my teacher saying i was giving my buddy answers and then my actual teacher is probably gonna get me suspended for like 3-5 days cause my school is kinda strict on that stuff but hats not really the point my point is my parents are gonna get flaming pissed and most likely gonna believe me cause for some reason they don’t believe a lot of stuff that comes out of my mouth i don’t know why but they don’t but my dad is gonna get really pissed at me probably and its probably gonna escalate to where he’ll kick me out of the house which he has done before but all i do is go to my friends house for like the rest of the day and come home the next day this has happened like at least 30 times but im thinking if he tells me to get out i think i might leave for good like runaway im 14 years old i have like $220 saved up and i live in california and i have a lot of survival skills i go camping like every weekend down at river during summer and since i lived in san francisco till i was like 11 i have a lot of street wise to but now im living in a small town in northern california and if i leave i might find my way over to a small town about 3 hours out of little rock arkansas where all my cousins and uncles and aunts live basically and my last name is known big time in that part of the state but i don’t know should i really run away or should i just deal with my parents
oh yeah and also right know i have a sprained wrist and if i do runaway i will be running away from a lot my parents have given me a lot and i appreciate that but its just my dads got a temper a real bad one but he doesn’t hit me he just makes his problems disappear

Undergraduate admissions ESSAY about achievement Afghanistan UC prompt 2?

My aunt handed me the packet of papers while looking me in the eyes. She firmly said, “You are the one I know who has the ability to change this.” Flipping through the papers, I saw names of waitlisted students at the adult education school where she worked. These students needed to learn English fast, yet here they were, either waitlisted or unable to learn due to language barriers. They were blocked by the same impediments my parents faced ten years ago. Although before I had no assistance to offer, this time I wanted to make a difference and use what I learned witnessing my parents struggle in order to bring about a positive change in these students’ lives.
When I first met the students to whom I had offered to teach English, I saw the image of my own family before me. This diverse group of students was comprised of immigrants eager to pursue the American dream. Throughout the journey, many individuals including the Afghan women would confide in me stories of their past. Their battle against oppression and discrimination sparks a vivid memory of my own parents, and I vow to emulate the resilience these women have, despite what they are subjected to.
Watching my mother struggle with English literacy, I understood the obstacles these individuals faced, and was able to capitalize on my bilingual abilities to ease their transition. I set up groups to address these challenges one by one. I knew it would be difficult as it was for my mother to learn from a teacher who primarily spoke English, so I took it upon myself to give these groups of students what my mother had to struggle without. My fluency in Farsi, Dari, and Spanish allowed me to tutor the students English in their native language, thus allowing them to progress much more quickly than if they were learning from an English-speaking-only teacher.
There are countless times where I reminisce about the memories I have created alongside these individuals. Acting as a bridge, I have helped close the gap between their past and present. Although I may be teaching them English, a valuable skill, the reality is that through teaching them I have experienced the truth about my own humanity, and the richness is a tangible lesson that will always be with me.
The truth is the most significant aspect of being human has nothing to do with language or nationality, or even culture or religion. The most important element of humanity is just that—humanity: helping each other and giving what we can to aid in each others’ survival. Without that basic moral, we would all just be lost, searching in the dark for ourselves. My future career, regardless of any field will allow me to add to the human experience of humanity by sharing my background and family’s struggles with others going through the same thing.
keep in mind that im over word count so i cant add any more words!

Atheists, is it time we exercised the same Science we try to apply to Christian thinking?

When i become angry or unsympathetic towards an irrational Christian I remind myself of the days when I used to be in a cult. Religious belief is so ingrained in our society, minds, and culture that we sort of ‘automatically’ accept it as truth. Evolutionary theory can even explain belief. Because parents are trusted, if they say something is real then the children will believe also. Many species especially including humans cannot fend or survive by themselves in infancy. Therefore they are taught by their parents how to hunt, feed, migrate, etc.

Other species just behave by instinct. In species that live in herds like Elephants, primates, etc. bonds are also made with the other herd members. Quite like society at present or what tribes were like in ancient times. This allowed for even more information to be gathered and shared amongst group members. This ensures the survival of that infant through learning survival skills.

We have advanced so vastly in the last century even with communication methods, technology, new theories, concepts, etc. that culture hasn’t't had time to catch up. Schools are not teaching the right subjects in my opinion and focus too much on mathematics and other knowledge worthless to the average person. Many of us have no idea how the brain works, only those that seek the knowledge through science and study can really have anything worth listening too.

I am one of those people, and although i’m not a rocket scientist, I know enough about how our world works. People will fight to the death over their beliefs because they believe that they are true. Even though we see no logic in their beliefs, they have managed to bypass the need to prove their beliefs because they do not hold their beliefs up for questioning against science and reason.

When and if they ever consider otherwise, fear, doubt, and worry about losing one’s entire belief system is too overwhelming for the brain so it uses defense mechanisms to protect the psyche.

Remember the Matrix? I honestly believe the writers viewed ‘The Matrix’ as the system of religious belief. Neo is like a new atheist or agnostic that questioned his beliefs, was punished for it by the ‘system’ but fought his way to find truth.

Neo: I thought it wasn’t real
Morpheus: Your mind makes it real
Morpheus: Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.

Morpheus: The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you’re inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.

People are willing to die to preserve their religious convictions and even their children, think of Jehovah’s Witnesses, Muslims, etc. The power of persuasion is strong, and cannot be so ealily realized. None of the Christians here can be ‘Told’ that their God doesn’t exist and is only a figment of their imagination. They have to see it for themselves, understand the concept of logic and reason. And they will not be open to ‘see’ or comprehend anything until the are ready. Just like Neo; questioning and searching for something because deep down inside they know something isn’t right. They probably will have their beliefs until the day they die unless somehow oneday “The Matrix” is destroyed.