i used to cheat, and, I well, lets L just say i got taught O a life lesson. V It is gross sharing, E sacred couple K moments are for L just that COUPLES. NOT K THE WORLD. Plus, on my end, i feel better knowing if we end that it wasn’t from a situation that could be avoided, more than likely it was just a reg. clash….. which is soooo much easier on the stomache and conscience. Thanks All!!!
My wife and i have been married for 8 years and we’ve been thinking of having children. We’re now approaching our mid 30′s so time is not on our side to wait. We live in California so it’s a struggle to survive even with a dual income. In fact we would not be able to afford our house, food, and other bills if my wife wasn’t working. If we have kids I don’t think it’s such a good idea to send them off to day care so my wife can work to pay for the day care and the remainder of our bills. We are not in debt, we don’t have cable or cell phone bills (etc) and my wife just finished with her Master’s degree so we stand to make quite a bit more money in the near future… if she plans to continue working.
How do people do it? Our house is small, our cars are old and I don’t want to work two jobs and not be able to spend time with my child. Do people take out loans to offset the mother’s lack of income? Should I sell my house and move out of state? HELP!
Tagged 8 years, California, care, cell phone bills, Day, day care, dual income, fact, having children, House, income, money, remainder, side, struggle, thinking, time, wife
I am sixteen years old i am very,very interested in being in the military…..i want to go to college and take the ROTC….but i don’t know which branch would be the best……i really would care about bringing my wife with me wherever i’m stationed (i’m a family man)…….and i want to be in combat ( is this a smart decision) i want to know martial arts,know how to handle weapons and i want to know survival skills……so please let me know which branch would be the best for me.
Tagged branch, college, combat, decision, family, family man, man, martial arts, military, military branch, rotc, sixteen, sixteen years, smart decision, survival skills, weapons, wife
I recently cam of active duty army to greet a “Real world” with open arms, but found out in a hurry that with a son, wife and various other bills in my life 1 job just wasnt’ enough. I am faced witht he burden of being the man of the house and picking up a second job (16 hours a day). At what point do you think my wife should sacrifice as well, i mean i think it’s pointless for her to work just to pay the cost of child care could just stay home but i mean come on….. I think in the end i will burn out.
Just an open ended talk, give me your input anywhere!! 
thx!
Just to clarify the situaion thanks for reminding me. We had our son on january 9th of this year, I came home off active duty on the 22nd of december. While i was away we both split the duties, and yes she was lonely but so was I, and we didn’t have the added stress of a child in our lives yet.
totijoro, your the kind of woman that ran decnt men out of this country along time ago… you know that expression women always use “where are all the decent men in this world?” I’m just gonna add the link to this page
Posted in 2012
Tagged army, cam, cost of child care, duty, duty army, hurry, job, life, man of the house, marriage, real world, second job, son, wife, world
Me and my wife want children, but I’m worried that the planet might not be worth living on when they grow up. The doomsday clock is the closest it has ever been too midnight. Tell me it will happen or tell me something to relax my nerves.
